So... my ex-husband asked to be added as a friend on Facebook.
When I first saw the request in my email I was like HUH? WHAT FOR?? and then proceeded to ignore it for a few days. Then I casually mentioned it to K and she was like, "You have to add him; if you don't he'll be hurt."
And I was like, "Kid, you're smoking crack! That man does NOT care what I do! Plus my blog is listed there and I talk about him on it sometimes."
To which she replied, "Please! Daddy knows you talk about him!"
Then she kept at it and I caved (between you and me? That girl knows EXACTLY how to wrap me around her finger sometimes... I must find an antidote before she turns 16!) so I add him, whatever, and when Irene sees it she's like: ACK! Oh no! C-man is on Facebook now. Is nowhere safe?
And THEN she points out that some of the stuff I've written about him, especially in most recent months, might hurt his feelings so I may want to take down my blog link from FB.
GREAT.
Now I can't have my blog link up because somebody's feelings might get hurt? UGH!!
Do you see what I mean now about exes coming out of woodwork n shit? This one googles me, another stops me on the street, one adds me on MySpace and now THIS ONE friends me on FB. And don't EVEN get me started on the one who texts me at 2AM talking about "Hey you! Watchu doing?" IS NOTHING SACRED?
All that's missing now is for one to rent the empty apartment next door, another to start working out at my gym, and yet another to get a job at my firm. Then I will know that the Universe is definitely out to get me.
Honestly, it's my own fault for wanting to be "on good terms" with everyone... I should just be an awful, nasty, devil-bitch to every guy I break up with so that they will hate me forever and NEVER EVER get the idea: "Hey, I wonder what Rocky is up to? Let me google her and find out..."
*smooches...definitely, absolutely, without a doubt NOT changing a word in any of my posts*
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all the parties involved will just have to suck it up and DEAL! This here is MY blog, and if they don't like it, they are more than welcome to start a blog of their own!! HMPH!
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Well look at it this way, if he visits the blog he might learn how he messed up.
If not then the hell with it.
Ha...I surely hope the universe isn't out to get you - lol...I swear I hope not.
sounds like someone has that "Good Good" all the men love them some Jaded..lol
pretends to know what facebook is.
Honestly I wouldn't be to shock if he knew about this this blog all along.
lmao @ her saying plz...daddy knows you talk about him... hahaahahah
I love facebook because people can only see what I want them to see... like I can make certain pictures private to certain people... certain info... when I post a note... so just put everything private so that all he sees is your name and your profile picture...lol
I dont let any one no about my blog anymore, just in case i got to talk about them.
The blog is for me not for them.
I had to take my blog down off my facebook because I talk about my friends on my blog. My blog is for people I don't know lol it's my way to vent
@dipsetjam- you think he's been reading it and not saying anything to me? what a punk LOL
(I kid, I kid!)
@clnmike- I try not to talk about too many people who don't read this blog; it's just rude. But sometimes I just HAVE to. lol
@dessex- LOL! Thing is, this blog started out as (and still is for the most part) as a letter to my friends as a way to keep up with what's going on since we hardly get to see each other anymore. If you go way back into the archives you'll notice that.
It wasn't until people other than the folks on my distribution list started reading and commenting over here that I started to use initials instead of names, etc and protecting sertain identities.
The thing is, my ex is NOT on this list, so he needs to just go somewhere!! lol
@eb- thanks for the head's up! I did not know you could make things private on FB... woohoo!!
FB is the secret service. Remember how we found out who "HE" was because you found him on FB? Maybe the ex in the secret servi ...
nm - I was having me a moment.
Girl, I thought I was the only one with ex's coming out of my ears on social networking and random life moments/situations, but like you I'll change no blogs, poems, or nuffin' to protect their raggedy a$$ feelings...
they cant seem to get enough
wat u b doin to em?
lol
i don't have my blog on facebook b/c i'm looking for a new job. i don't want a future employer looking at my blog and reading where i've talked shit about white people. lmao. once i get this new job...it's on!
don't tell me that jaded santana is worrying about her ex might read. who cares? he aint your boss!
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