So I went over to Minnie's for an impromptu BBQ w/friends and family, and one of her co-workers, lets call her CeCe, was there w/her beau du jour. Lets call him THIRSTY.
Oh my god he... I... words... cannot...
Wherever CeCe went, there went THIRSTY right behind her like a poorly trained puppy. As if that weren't bad enough he proceeded to kiss her on her shoulder and neck- ALL IN OUR FACES- despite CeCe's cries of, "STOP. Can you stop for like five minutes? Can you leave me alone for like five minutes?"
I wanted to scream "GODDAMMIT DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND ENGLISH??? SHE SAID FIVE MINUTES NEGRO. FIIIIIIIVVVVVVEEEEEE!!!!"
Oooh, I was too, too annoyed. And it's not like she was saying "stop" in a playful, girly way because then I'd be like, "That bitch likes it." She was truly as annoyed as I was. Heck, we were ALL annoyed, and I'm
What makes someone behave that way? Why? On what planet is it acceptable to paw at someone in mixed company and continue to do so even AFTER you've been repeatedly asked to stop? Why are people so EXTRA when it comes to the opposite sex? Smothering people? Being a shadow? Tits out? Ass out? No panties? What. The. Fuck? Where's the limit?
People, I had to leave my own cousin's house to preserve my sanity, lest I come out face to someone else's man, word to Chris Brown's bow tie! I know I'm extremely guarded and would NEVER let on that I like someone, and that's the other extreme of the spectrum and not a good look, but THIRST? On a man?
Excuse me while I vomit something for this fool to drink...
I mean, I know about my own levels of insecurities and how damaging it has been in my supposed attempts at relationships, but what type of need is trying to be filled by someone that hard pressed to be all up in their partner's face? Did their mommies not hug them enough? Did their daddies not eat at the table with the family? Do I need to take up a collection to get these people some therapy, because I will!
Help me out, folks. What's really happening here?
*smooches...praying to never meet a dude like that*
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8 comments:
You said it: insecurity. However, the lowest form of insecurity, the need to have any attention whatsoever, even if it manifests itself into negative attention. It sounds like this dude is CHILDISH with his need for his girl's attention. Although, it could also be that he was playing the other side of the coin, trying to pick up chicks as the ever-loving devoted boyfriend!! You know THOSE dudes, the kind that flaunt that they have a girlfriend to get girls...
somebody shoulda kept offerin dude some water until he got the message,sometimes dudes dont get it until feelings get hurt.
i dont even speak Spanish but ida been all in the convo with yall.
Disgust i universal
Uh uh...sounds like ya'll were jealous and shit to me.
:P
If the chick didn't like it, she could have ended it. She didn't, so there.
LMAO at "word to Chris Brown's bowtie"...
This guy might be whooped, possessive or simply does not know how to make polite conversation with strangers and others.
I don't think you're hating, it seemed like he was desperate looking and sad.
Rizzo, did dude recently get out of the pen? Just askin'...he could be all backed up and she ain't paying enough attention.
JK, I'm with Irene on this. She could have put a straight halt to his madness real quick like.
...there's that damn bowtie again.
No words. You are right, thirsty guys are the worst.
LoL. That's a shame. It's even worst than a guy she just met. He already has her (well I don't know how long they've been dating but still he's past stage 1). So that kind of thirst is even more unnecessary. Such a damn shame. But I agree guys are wayyyyyy more thirsty in my opinion.
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