Whenever I get one of those creepy old lady thoughts, the ones where The Voices are all, "Girl you ain't no spring chicken. You might want to think of just settling for the next loser that says hi" I seriously have to fight them in their face.
I won't settle. Even if it means I'm alone in my 50s. I had my fun after my divorce but now I must enforce some standards. I can't be bettering myself and then end up with garbage for a life partner. And I don't need perfection, but damn, dawg, show me that you're trying to make progress. All I see around me is NO.
I'm just saying.
*smooches...a little tired of NY men*
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at this stage in the game, all the good ones are taken. they were snatched up while I wasted my time being married to you-know-who.
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Yeah, as I keep hearing, it's slim pickings for you ladies out there, and it's all the XY chromosome's fault. At this point, you should choose to have standards an find someone that can cater to your needs. There's somebody in these NY streets, sonewhere. You're a few more steps closer to Olmec's temple
Good for you! Don't settle!
I have a friend who recently mentioned just marrying this friend of hers because he's got the money and then she wouldn't be alone and ... basically every wrong reason (or what I would deem wrong) out there.
I told her I'd respect her decision because she's my friend but that I won't promise that I won't bitch and moan about it. She's better than that and I'll keep reminding her.
All the good ones can't be taken. They just can't. Promise me that, if you find one, you'll ask if he has a brother as good as him that I might meet. I'll do the same for you.
By the way ... you-know-who might have been mostly a waste of time but you did get your girls, the best silver lining I can think of.
@vixon- it IS slim pickings. I might have to get an out-of-state boo.
@kelly- Don't worry- as soon as I find out where the quality men are I'll let you know :)
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